It is believed that hard work is the main key to success in the field of webcam, but what does it really mean?
The work begins with setting boundaries, as most customers (not all, but many) encroach on three things: your time, money and consent to do what they want. This, of course, complicates the work.
Regular requests (in messages or letters) to meet in person – all these attempts to transfer communication from the chat room to real life are emotionally exhausting and interfere with your plans. This is doubly frustrating, as the members know on which site you work, and this kind of correspondence can threaten you with a ban.
You don't always know when to put an end to it: to blow them off at once or to wait a little in the hope that they will be distracted by something else?
Everyone knows that the best thing about webcam is the ability to manage your own work. So do it as efficiently as possible!
As a webcam model to defend and protect yourself
Decide on what you agree to
What do you want to do and for how much?
Decide on what you do not agree
Never settle for something you don't like! Forget about having to apologize or explain. One phrase "I do not wait" is enough. And if member keeps pushing, you can say this: "If that's all you're looking for, I'm not the one you need. If you stop asking, we'll get along. And if not – good riddance!»
The next step we're going to talk about is very important: write down everything you agree and disagree on, and leave it somewhere in plain sight. You have to remember your own rules to maintain your mental health.
A good friend of mine put such a list in a beautiful gold frame and put it on a table near the bed. Every time it was necessary, she would take a frame and read her rules out loud.
Do not be afraid to block and ban users!
Do not be tormented by the pangs of conscience and even more so to think that you are a bad model. This is real life! If someone is behaving inappropriately, don't put up with it. Treat your chat room like a party: if some drunks and fools are hanging around you, other guests will leave, and you will have to entertain the dregs of society.
Be extremely careful with personal information!As a webcam model to defend and protect yourself
I advise you to write a story about yourself, two pages, as if you were telling about your life to a complete stranger: where you grew up, studied, when your birthday, your first sexual experience. You can tell the truth, lie, or make up a half-true story. By doing this once, you will not have to strain your imagination every day.
Warm up the interest, because meetings with membranes in real life are impossible!
It happens that you have a great regular customer who does not want to lose, but who insists on meeting. The person wants to transfer your relationship to another plane. If this is not part of your plans, but you are not going to lose such a client, try to maintain his interest in yourself and at the same time make it clear that the meeting in real life is not an option: "Honey, this can not be better! You wouldn't even look back at me if you met me on the street. This is where I'm not held back. I love that we can secretly spend time together, doing whatever we want, and then go back to our normal lives!»
Write yourself a letter called "In case of emergency"!
This is a letter you should write yourself in advance in case you have a bad day. Write it like you're writing to your best friend. Tell yourself you're not fat or ugly or a loser. You're beautiful! You're gorgeous! Sometimes you'll hate your job, but don't take it personally. Hide this letter somewhere far away and reread in those days, when any member will offend you, tries force you do something against your will and you almost agree to. Or the days when you're just sad.
When you set clear rules for yourself, the risk of burnout is reduced to a minimum, you begin to attract worthy customers. It was then that the webcam becomes a job that is fun. Because you're the boss!